Wording

We have suggested the wording below as a guide - but you can have anything you wish on the wedding stationery. Either include your wording on the order form or email us - this is essential for the Ceremony Program and for the booklet format where you must email us your guest list to have typeset on the invitations.

Wording for wedding invitations - to Church and reception venue
Mr and Mrs Thomas McCourt
Request the honour of your presence
At the marriage of their daughter
Katherine to Mark Old
On Saturday, June the fourteenth, two thousand and eight
At four o’clock in the afternoon
Saint Bernadette Church
918 Quonset Place
North Kingston, Rhode Island

Reply address should be added if you are not including a Reply Card, and if required, a dress code.

Alternative wedding invitation wording
The wording may change according to who hosts the wedding:
If the brides’s parents are hosts: Mr and Mrs McCourt…the marriage of their daughter Katherine
If one of the parents is widowed: Mrs McCourt…her daughter Katherine / Mr McCourt…his daughter Katherine
And if they have remarried: Mr and Mrs Harrison…her daughter Katherine / Mr and Mrs McCourt…his daughter Katherine
If the parents are divorced and co-hosting: Mr McCourt and Mrs Harrison…their daughter Katherine
If the bride and groom are hosts: Miss Katherine McCourt and Mr Mark Old…at their marriage
An invitation to a blessing: Mr and Mrs Thomas McCourt are delighted to invite (guest’s name) to the service of blessing, following the marriage of their daughter Katherine to Mark Old …

Ceremony of Commitment
Katherine McCourt and Emma Old invite you to join them at their Ceremony of Commitment, On Saturday, June the fourteenth, two thousand and eight, At four o’clock in the afternoon…

Ceremonies abroad
Following the marriage of Adrian and Áine in St. John Lateran Church, Rome, Mr and Mrs Tony Mullan requests the honour of your prescence at the marriage of their daughter Katherine to Mark Old on Saturday, June the fourteenth, two thousand and eight at four o’clock in the afternoon at Kees Hotel, Stranorlar, County Donegal.

Following their wedding in Mauritius on 1st March 2006 Miss Sophie Cottrell and Mr Anand Gopaul invite you to join them at a party in celebration of their marriage at the Bang Bar, The Aquarium Restaurant, Ivory House, on Saturday, June the fourteenth, two thousand and eight at four o’clock in the afternoon.

We can also print bilingual copy if you send the translation when you order.

Wording for evening invitations

Mr and Mrs Thomas McCourt invite you to join them as they celebrate the marriage of their daughter Katherine to Mark Old at Alexander House Hotel On Saturday, June the fourteenth, two thousand and eight, At eight o’clock in the evening.
(Evening Invitations should have the reply address and remember to add Black tie if there is a dress code)

Wording for Reply Card
Your reply address is included, so guests can post directly. If you are worried about the timing, you can also add a reply by date.
Name of guests: (your guests will write here)
– Yes, I/we would love to come
– Sorry, I/we will be unable to attend
Please reply using this card by 1st April 2003.
If necessary you can also add other questions such as are you a vegetarian, or do you have any specific dietary requirements?

Ceremony Program
Entrance music, hymns, prayers, marriage, benediction - you will be able to obtain this from the Church you are getting married in and must always check it with the clergy before ordering. Due to the amount of text in your Ceremony Program we must receive this in a typed format on CD or email.

Click here to download an example Ceremony Program (in pdf format).
Or click here for an example of a civil ceremony (in pdf format).

Menu
The details of your wedding banquet - this will be obtainable from your caterer or reception venue

Table numbers

These can either be numbers or names of your choice.

Thank you Card
Contains your reply address (as a newly wed couple) and space to write your own message.

Guest information
You may also want to add details on accommodation, the wedding list and directions to the venue to help your guests.
Accommodation
(list the Hotel’s name, address and telephone number, and perhaps room price so your guests have a wide choice)
eg: Morgans Hotel New York, 237 Madison Avenue, New York 10016 T: 212 686 0300

Wedding List
(you should receive details of this from the store you have registered with ie tel. number, account name, availability)
eg: A wedding list is available at Macy’s from mid-March. Phone 212 695 4400 to locate your nearest store.
(If you feel uncomfortable mentioning gifts, you can always end with: Please do not feel obliged to buy a gift.)

Travel
(you should be able to get concise, easy-to-follow directions from the venue - remember to include road directions, and nearest Rail Station and perhaps a map. You should also print the full address of the church and venue)
eg: The University Club, 1W 54th Street, New York 10018

Finally
(you can add a contact number, normally the bride’s parents, if the guests have any further questions - anything from dietary needs, to booking taxis, to arranging the delivery of a surprise gift)
eg: For any other information, please call Mrs Thomas McCourt on 703 2243599

The Wedding List
Although many modern couples have already set up home together, it is still a good idea to give your guests an idea of your taste and what items you would like. You can register your list with a shop or department store (or split it between a few) as this service is usually free - remember to include a wide variety of gifts that will cover all budgets.

If you would prefer cash or gift certificates here are some examples of other wording:
Your presence rather than presents are important to us however William Sonoma gift certificates would be appreciated.

Having just moved into our first house together there are still many things we need for our new home.
We would appreciate gift certificates for Macy’s, Bloomingdales, William Sonoma.
But please do not feel obliged to buy us anything - we would just love you to be there.